Sunday, July 21, 2013

Vacation photos

This is just a really small selection... I took 350 photos altogether! 
Some highlights: staying in cabins at this farm near Elbasan, with some friends. 
My kids adore their kids.


The kids and I went to Dajti with Shpresa and her son Samueli.

We visited many of our favorite places in the city as well.


 There's a lot more on Facebook! I'll write more about the trip soon too.

Sunday, July 07, 2013

Bug's Third Birthday! (updated with links)

Zero...
One...

THREE!!!


He doesn't look all that different to me know than he did a year ago, but wow - it's been a year of CHANGES for our Little Dude!


Leaving Tirana, the only home he knew and remembered,



Spending some time in the US, where he was born,




And relocating to our new home in Colombia.





My little guy has grown so much!!! He's not a toddler anymore, he's a kid!  He learned to use the potty, he goes to school now, and is speaking volumes in English and Spanish. He makes me laugh every day.


Friday, July 05, 2013

Wow

I am so behind in blogging! Tomorrow we are flying to Albania, an unexpected journey, but I'm so happy. When Terry brought up the possibility of going back this soon, I couldn't even say anything - I just started crying. I hope everything goes well. The kids seem excited, but also want reassurance that we will be coming back home to Colombia. We'll be gone 2 weeks.

Sunday is Gabe's third birthday, and we'll be landing in Tirana around noon. I think it's kind of cool that his first three birthdays will have been in Albania! I hope that he will remember this trip even when he's older.

I'll try to post something while we're there.

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

More kid pictures

I'm enjoying so much the funny things they say! Since forever Valerie's been pronouncing "each other" rather oddly and I finally figured out that all along she's been saying "you 'chother." And Gabriel says it the same way! Right now they are really starting to talk in Spanish a lot - especially on school days. They sing "arroz con salchicha" (it's supposed to be "arroz con leche") :-)

I might update this as I remember more things...


Thursday, June 06, 2013

Dissertation week


This week has been fun for me because I took the whole week to sit around drinking green smoothies and working on my dissertation! I hope to do this about once a month so that there could actually be a chance of finishing someday... Thanks Terry for covering at the office!

Monday, June 03, 2013

Kids update

It's been a while since I've given a good kid update here - not sure how far I'll get today but I'll see what I can get down.

They are growing so fast...


They ask so many questions these days! This has led into protracted ongoing discussions about death, God, marriage, and tear gas (among many other topics). Sometimes it's fun to try to answer their questions and sometimes it's baffling. Sometimes I make up something that's complete nonsense, at least when it seems like they're asking just to ask and not really out of a desire to know.

Valerie in particular is very into story-telling at the moment; she asks us for endless tales of our growing up years (genres include "a time when you got hurt," "a time when you lost something," "a time when it was no fun", etc.) and she also makes up hilarious stories of her own. Sometimes Gabe will just sit and listen to her while she spins a yarn about My Little Ponies and bulldozers (invariably either the pony or the bulldozer dies, then God heals it, and the others come and get it off the clouds).



It's been really fantastic lately watching them learn to play together well. The other day they invented a game of throwing little green balls from a plant down the stairs, and if the ball stopped on a crack in the tiles it was a score, but not if it landed in the middle of the tile. One of the teachers at school told me, "they adore each other." They also fight like banshees, but they really do love each other as well. 


Last week they also both made a big leap in terms of using Spanish. Songs have been the best way by far for them to learn words and phrases. Their babysitter, Luz, sings with them a lot, and they've been learning a lot of songs at school too.

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Fooooooooood.....

Right now I'm drinking a delicious smoothie made up of apple, plum, banana, cucumber, avocado, almonds, and fresh ginger root. Oh, and peach yoghurt. Next time I'll make sure to add in some dark leafy greens.

But I don't have a photo of that right now :-)

Instead, I give you Three Roots of Life Tomato Sauce (see previous post):



And a salt-free bean dish I made another day:

I am LOVING my new salt-free diet. I am feeling so, so much better - and at my last check-up, my blood pressure was 110/80! The doctor did a little jig and shook my hand.

Friday, May 17, 2013

Resilience

Last month, we traveled as a family to Guatemala City for a week of meetings with other MCC reps from the Latin American and Caribbean region. Despite being sick most of the time, and despite the kids eating next to nothing, it was a really good time. Aside from regular business, we also had a series of workshops on the theme of resilience.

It was a great theme. We talked about self-care, about work/life balance, about reframing how we think about things to maintain long-term perspective. We talked about the importance of spirituality and strong social support.

I keep thinking how since moving here I feel like I'm in "survival mode" much of the time. One of the things that has taken bottom-level priority has been cooking. We eat out for lunch every day (fixed-menu restaurants for about $3), then the other two meals I'm mostly thinking about what the kids are going to eat, and I eat the leftovers or something. We get take-out rotisserie chicken or order in pizza because it's fast and easy. We've been getting cold after cold, and I've been thinking that if we ate better (which we did to a certain extent when the two pairs of grandparents were here helping out!) we wouldn't get sick so much.
 
Anyway, we got back and I went to the doctor and confirmed that I had bronchitis. Just when I was finishing up my antibiotic treatment and beginning to feel a little better, I developed a crippling headache that didn't quit. Terry was traveling with some visiting project funders, and I was solo parenting and covering for both of us at the office. At the end of the second day, when sleep and Advil did absolutely nothing to touch the headache, I asked a couple team members to watch the kids for me and went to a walk-in clinic where I learned that my blood pressure was 170/120.

So now I'm on a beta blocker and no-sodium diet, and I feel soooooooo much better! It took about 12 hours before the headache abated, and my BP is still around 140/110, but I have my energy and happiness back. I've had to be creative figuring what to eat that has no salt in it. I'm not even supposed to have bread. This morning Terry made me pancakes with no salt and they tasted great! I don't really mind the taste aspect of it, it's the work of preparing food that is a little daunting. But yesterday afternoon I was home with the kids and enjoyed cooking some dishes I used to make before Valerie was born, just without adding salt!


Three Roots of Life Tomato Sauce
- Chop up a large onion and sautee in olive oil with cumin to taste
- as it browns, add chopped up garlic (to taste) and about 1/4 cup grated carrot
- add 3 big chopped up tomatoes
- and diced fresh ginger root and simmer until the tomatoes are soft
- pile on spinach leaves torn into small pieces
- when spinach is wilted, EAT!

I'm gathering a cornucopia of fresh produce into the house. Change is coming.

Wednesday, May 15, 2013

5 * Cinco * Five!!!

Zero...

One...

Two...

Three...

Four...

FIVE!!!!!
Happy birthday, my beautiful girl! You are creative, smart, funny, athletic, and brave. 
Love you so, so much.

Saturday, May 04, 2013

peace pearls

Some people in MCC like to call the following "Peace Pearls" (instead of bullet points...) (fwiw)





  • These photos don't really do justice to the loveliness of the Catholic retreat center where we spent our week of meetings. 
  • Two days before our trip to Guatemala I started to get a sore throat. Two days after coming back I had a diagnosis of bronchitis.
  • Gabriel had a fever 4 nights and 3 days while we were there.
  • I discovered exactly how little food our kids can get by on when away from home
  • Terry is now out of town for 10 days taking some of our funders around to see different food security projects in the Atlantic and Pacific Coasts.
  • I started to feel better around midnight last night.
  • Today I enjoyed a perfect avocado, a perfect cup of coffee, and two hours of sunshine with the kids in the park! Lovely Saturday.

Friday, April 19, 2013

Photo Phriday

 I'm only including this picture so you can see how long Gabriel's hair was - I had cut it in the back a few weeks ago, but not the sides.

 Looking at this photo I can believe she's almost 5!


After the haircut:

Reading with Tia Rosanne:


Happy sister and brother on Montserrate:
I just hope Gabriel and Valerie appreciate each other someday as much as these two do now!

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Travel and More Travel

I spent the first half of this week traveling along the northern coast to Cartagena, with a student group from EMU who spent the semester in Guatemala and the last three weeks with us in Colombia. (Terry and I took a group through this same program in the spring of 2002; things look very different as hosts rather than group leaders...!). Fun detail from the trip: on my way to the airport this morning, the hotel owner picked a bunch of fresh oregano from her patio pot so I could take it home and make a healing soup for my coughing kids. It smells so good!

Next week the whole family is going to Guatemala for a week of MCC country representative meetings. I'm hoping we have a little time to walk around Antigua and shop a little!

The Jantzi Grands are leaving Saturday night after a month of cooking, cleaning, and child care. I'm sure they are looking forward to a little rest! It's been great having them here though.

Friday, April 12, 2013

Surprise!

Rosanne is here!
We pulled off a successful surprise visit, the first time the Jantzi 4 plus me and the kids have been under the same roof since right before we went to Albania, in September 2010. Gabriel was only 2 months old!

I'll post photos once I get them onto the computer.

Monday, April 08, 2013

Giant Foods and Social Development


 A couple months ago we took the kids to the Bogotá Children's Museum. The highlight of the visit was the Giant Foods room, with giant sculpted fruits and vegetable arranged as slides and little rooms (if you look closely you can see Valerie at the top under the papaya).



This room was so fun.
Overall, the Children's Museum here was really different from the ones we've been to in the US, and it made me reflect on different cultural patterns that teach and emphasize different priorities to children.

In the US, there are a plethora of "stations" or activity centers designed to be highly interactive and hands-on, with all kinds of different themes. Some emphasize careers, others arts, others nature and life sciences. Kids are supposed to have an adult around keeping track of them (you don't just drop them off and leave), but within the four walls of the museum they are free to explore, to choose the activities that most interest them, and to rotate from one activity to the next as the spirit moves them.


The one in Harrisonburg is fantastic, with loads of different things to do that fascinate the kids, and with a local focus that highlights Valley industries and interests.

The Children's Museum in Bogota seems to have a similar range of activities, but the structure was totally different. Children are sent through in groups, with a guide, on a schedule, to pre-determined activity sites. They are geared to specific age ranges and the guides do a lot of play-work with the kids. When we went, our group was "los Delfines" - the Dolphins. Adults accompanying the kids went along and participated as well.

We were a little late so we missed the first activity, but the second one was in a room shaped like a giant mouth and we learned about brushing and flossing teeth. This made a big impact on my kids and they still talk about the video they saw there in which a boy gets cavities and cries because his teeth hurt. (Last night Gabriel stuck a finger in his mouth, looked at me mischievously, and said "I touched the yucky germs!")

As we walked through the enormous building, the guide led the kids in little games, cheers, and fun activities. To get to the giant foods room, we went through a "space ship" with black light and everything.

 (Here you can see just the corner of the giant cheese block to the right of the milk, and the edge of the giant hollow fish that was another little room to run around in. That's Valerie on the slide.)

The guide had a pretty hard time in this room keeping the kids focused as he talked about good nutrition - it wasn't long until they were running around going down the slides and exploring the giant fish. But our kids led the charge, used as they are to a more independent style of playing. 

And that's what got me thinking. The Colombian approach is consistent with what I've seen throughout Latin America - placing higher value on being part of a group, participating in activities together that build a sense of group identity and cohesion, and using that as a platform for learning, in contrast to the US style of fostering independence and rewarding curious exploring. The Colombian approach also integrated generations together more closely, as parents and grandparents were recruited and included in the activities and conversations. 

It made me very curious to see how schooling in Colombia will shape my kids' social orientations and preferences.